Journey so far

As I have stated before this is all still relatively new, I never thought i was a mistress I always thought i was the sub, however as time has gone on I've realised I'm not so much the Sub as I thought..

I like the power, I like making him stand chain hanging from the ceiling, his hands cuffed to it. I like strapping him down to the "bench" as we call it and hitting him with the strap or pegging him, him begging for more.

The power I feel is remarkable and one that I enjoy. I never thought I would. They always say that Dom/sub relationships are more about the sub.. and that is true The Dom does more work, takes more time to prepare must plan the scenarios but there is also something in it for the Dom too otherwise none of us would be doing it .. power,pleasure and a knowing that as long as we keep our Subs best int rest at heart they will love us for it.

This journey has been a slow process starting with the simple act of pegging, slowly but surly my Sub has wiggled himself into the position he has wanted to be in. over the course of 10 years slow yes but when we started this journey I was as vanilla as they came.

We have progressed a lot in this journey we now employ not only pegging but a punishment/Reward system, Chasity and many other things that i never dreamed of.

I'm still not sure where to start in our tale as it's so much back story so maybe I'll start from this point on and if you have questions about the past you can always ask and i may or may not tell depending.

The now is simple we bought a Neosteel belt awhile ago and that is now currently on him. It has been on for the last 5 days and I'm not sure when he'll be out. We have had a proper adjustment period and the belt is comfortable for him. He is also able to do all the proper hygiene things that he needs to. I've been enjoying his time in the belt although he still needs to remember his duties. I've been keeping him rather hyped up so to speak and he's been talking about periods of high sexual need which is laughed at by me since I have no immediate plans of letting him out.
Especially when he forgets to do something on his list of duties. Today for instance he was to empty the dishwasher and put the dirty dishes in.. otherwise there will be piles and we have a meeting here at the house tonight.. now i must do it so everything can be accomplished in time. This is annoying and makes me a little angry there will be some sort of punishment for this.. I can't undo him from his belt right now for a proper spanking so I think it will be a case of locked butt plug (the largest we have) or something equaling that will first bring him pleasure but the length of time will make it a punishment.

Our contract for our Mistress/Sub relationship is coming to an end and we will be doing a new one I'm trying to think of which duties I think he should have on there as they seem to span a 6-8 month period of time. He is the breadwinner in the home so I don't think it is fair he does all the house work but man is it tempting. LOL
Think I'm going to leave it at that thought.
All for this one.
Mistress Ayden