What a weekend.

Pet and I had a pretty busy weekend not only with our play but with our personal lives. You have no idea how hard it is to stay in character of mistress when you are fluttering about between dance recitals, other activities and then yard work.

I'm rather put out that we didn't manage to keep the house clean during the process so while i will probably do some of the cleaning, pet has requested the special undies he wears when in Chasity be washed so I will throw a few loads in, but think that Pet will need to "do a few items as well" It's not fair that mistress was out working for a few hours yesterday and he didn't even manage to pick up the toys off the floor. or even organize the children to do it.

Any way housekeeping aside it was a fun weekend with a really hot session in bed Saturday night, pet and I while not penetrating anything had managed to work ourselves up. Our talk itself was rather entertaining as we let our imaginations and fantasy take us on a ride.

My pet has created a list of things to do.. Someone call this topping from the bottom, but it's more a helpful list then anything i think, sometimes I think pet worries to much about what his mistress will think and chooses to go light on her. Pet needs to stop playing that game and worry more about not having his needs met as his sub. Of course as his mistress I will choose which i do and what i don't and when.. and of course anything that meets a need of mine will be done much more often then anything ;)

Yesterday I think my pet was a little apprehensive, we started our session with him being locking into place with a chain to the ceiling attached to the back loop on his belt. i placed a large dildo up his ass, it was easy on him though as it wasn't hard and almost jelly like. he liked it though. I had cuffed his hands to the chain above his head, once they were secure i placed the key to his chastity belt over the the lock.. so it dangled I then went and showered. leaving him there was fabulous it was rather hot watching him squirm, although next time I think I will go through the added trouble of using the T-bar again.. I found it was much to easy on him this time. I don't think pet was all into it yesterday but I was and that's really what matters. I let him out for a bit of a breather from his belt. It wasn't a true release though as he wasn't allowed to come. Instead I let him out.. rubbed him a little and laughed at his plight that if he came he would be in serious trouble.

I seem to be a little all over the place today, I think i will blame it on so much to say and.. and d other obligations other then being just my pets mistress. it's sometimes extremely difficult to wear all the hats I wear and still do everything well. This blog of course isn't just about the activities but feelings, thoughts and all other things that are about the relationship of pet and I... Like all things it is never just about the sex unless it actually is.. in which case it's just fun.. ;) but how often does that really happen?

It is okay for it to be just about the sex some days, but that gets fully bland and boring if there was nothing else to it. unless of course it is a F.buddy that only come around occasionally. but in a relationship it's always more and you will all most likely hear about it all.

This Mistress thinks that any Slave worth his weight would rather have one that cares more about the feelings and emotions then just the sex anyway although the sex still has to be good and you can't stop halfway through a scene or scenario to talk about feelings it kills the mood and just sucks... Save the talking for after the rest period, or before it even starts and let the scene playout how it's supposed to...