for cryn out loud

here we go again,

pet has come down from his high sub activity and i get nothing but attitude. Pet has his moments but not two minutes ago i get snapped at *sigh* now i don't care one way or the other but the hot cold shit needs to end. his attitude has sucked i'm ready to say no more cumming ever because this is a constant thing when he has cum more then a few times and it is enough to piss me off!

Pet needs to start treating me with some reverence if he wants to have me as his mistress

it would have worked just as well to go "no go have fun i do not need to be there" and when did i say that i was only meeting for a drink? i figured i'd meet this new guy for a drink and if i was comfortable i was planning to go suck his cock and have him fuck me. thank you very much

I'm not sure what he though or what he thinks but i just wish the attitude would end and he would either tell me what he is thinking or stuff it. I guess i just need to be more dominate? stop being nice and waiting for him to be in the mood and use him as the toilet and little sissy he is. I'm just never wanting to press things as it has never worked me pressing in the past and usually results in arguments and that just sucks.

I just wish things would get easier and less complicated

wow my last post turned more into a bitch fest then i had thought it would so wanted to talk more about the things i am enjoying, p

Pet has been spending time between my theighs and ass and i am enjoying his efferts a lot i would love it if he tried to spend some time finding my g spot and getting me to come.

I also wish pet would put his collar back on I also want to give pet a nice beating but i know for that to work he needs to be in the right mood and so do i so hopefully this weekend. so many thoughts and not nearly enough time lol but i truly do love my pet and want him to be happy so will do all that i can as a mistress to take care of him as well as giving me everything i want too.

sometimes though i just wish pet and i could have a normal marriage so that these issues and confusions wouldn't come up. don 't get me wrong i enjoy the kink but sometimes i wonder what we would be without it i think we would still have a close relationship but i wonder if we wouldn't have our secrets or if he would have cheated or any number of things but i also wonder if maybe i wouldn't be so controlling and suspisious and worried urgh... hate this type of mood and wish it would bugger off just want my pet and i to be happy and kink is one way we are doing it so it's all good right?

rabbit holes and other things

once again pet and i are down a rabbit hole. started with me leaving on a trip and keeps going. pet spent much of the time self playing while i was away and while i knew and enjoy the results being faced with it is slightly annoying also i am upset that in the whole time i was gone pet didnt do much. didnt sweep the floors vaccum or even finish getting the childrens rooms finished (which he said was kind of his goal) im just wondering if he had the energy and time to play he couldnt do a few of these items i know watching the kids is hard work because i do it too but i manage to get the work done.

as to other things im loving the things we are doing pet has drank from me two morning now and i think i want to keep this going. i also have several meetings planned for fwbs so that i dont need pets cock hopefully one or two go well and i wont need to do this again for a long time. i love the benifits but hate the meetings and getting to this point it drives me nuts.

i understand pets adversions to it to but wish he would find a few too so that i could watch him fuck. i so enjoy it and pet likes it too.

now on to something that will piss pet off but i just need to get out while away two ladies that pet is friends with went out they messaged pet and asked him to come out and then when he said he couldnt they wanted to know when he could go out out with them without me! now this just sits compleatly wrong with me. i just think its wrong they would even say it let alone think it and that they want my husband/pet out with them without me. i wonder how they would feel if i asked their husbands out without them. it seems like they are almost trying to get him alone and it threatens me. pet says he has no social life and that it is my fault! i say its his because he doesnt go out with his male friends. other then my dates i do not go out with males without him! i think it sends the wrong message and it is one i do not want presented. im sure nothing would happen but it does not change the fact that both these ladies are rather flirty and come on to him all the time and im sorry but i dont like it! he likes to share i do not. i would never have done any of this without pets go ahead and i think even then he wonders if he shouldnt have the same oppertunity and wants that oppertunity but i think it would be more then i could take and i know gander meet goose but i would stop it all before i could go to that point. and would prefer living vanilla then going there.

i say you want a social life have one go for a drink with the guys, a movie, whatever but leave the women alone

cuckholding is the life for me

it's amazing the turn around that i have been feeling lately. I cuckolded Pet truly for the first time last week. before this Pet has always been in extream proximity either in the room, or in the house. Last week I went to another mans home and had sex with someone other then my pet without him around at all. It was a liberating experience that evening I learned that I can do it, that i am diserable when he isn't around and that my pet loves me. I was worried about the reaction i would recieve when I got home as this was knew and i had had mixed emotions from him before instead he gave me hugs and kisses. Mind you the last few days have been extreamly busy and we haven't had much time to talk I think we are both good with it. I think pet is starting to think it's better to do things this way because he hasn't been interested in meeting others I do have another guy that I want to meet with this week for a play date but in his case we do have to meet here and pet doesn't seem a that willing to do so.. but without paying for a room somewhere this is the only option.

i want to keep pet in a sub frame of mind but we have run into a problem he needs to cum so he can focus on his work and other stuff. I'm unsure of how to deal with this issue I hate having him cum because he just loses the reason we have our relationship the way we do.

On to other topics.

Pet is taking off for the weekend that is our anniversary, I gave him permission for this but i'm so sad about it But i realize that he needs time away from us too. So permission has been given and I'm happy he is going to get to do something he loves to do. I think this is what he needs to get some rest and relaxation.

But at the same time it's our anniversary and we haven't done much for our anniversary the last few years and I do not want it to become just another day. We have been married a long time and I think I have the right idea by wanting to celebrate the love and life we are building, I think no I know that we should take the time to show that we are still together and have built a life and family we can be proud of.

I think i mentioned before that I received the boots D.O.G bought for me, they are all lovely but I haven't had a chance to wear them more then for a moment and haven't taken pictures of them. I do plan to do so as well as a photo shoot of some provocative posses as well as some motherly ones. I think we will try to do this tonight after our commitments for the evening are done as there are people waiting on the pictures and i want everyone to be happy.

have had one coffee date that is very promising and another tonight. looking forward to having some good sex. of course im not sure of the rules anymore... pet and i havent talkes about the rules... am i allowed to go back o guys house? what are the rules if i do? what about people here?? so not sure. i got my new boots that deeohgee bought for me they are fantastic, can't wait to get some pictures out to him. the outfit i bought is a bit small due to gaining 10 lbs need to get my butt in gear

Pet wants me to bring in income as a phone mommy, honestly i just feel silly and such while on the phone, doesn't help that i really hate talking on the phone and find it hard to know what to say especially a stranger who until that moment i have no interaction with. He sees it as a great way to earn an income and it's true I could make a lot of money that way but it just feels weird and forced the several call i have made. I do plan to try again. hopefully with some direction from someone who has done it before but we need to actually get her back into the game for that to work.

I have some other ideas that I already know i'm good at and that are fun for me as well.. of course some are hard to implement at this time due to safety and such.. selling panties is one, doming men is another, pretty sure i could make good money doing what I like to do for free :) no sex involved just tying men up, making them grovel at my feet, pegging their sorry asses while i'm fully clothed and they are feeling vulnerable and helpless... These are things i don't feel stupid while doing the thing is how to do it so everyone involved is safe and no harm comes, and the safe also means my reputation as an upstanding citizen still intact. thats what worries me about setting up an escort service type adventure the fact that I then need a license which registers me to the city which is then searchable to anyone who chooses.. *sigh* and this is something I would do not only because I enjoy it but because it would be good money.. I WANT A DUNGEON!! LOL.

As to other things pet doesn't seem to take seriously that I requested a blog awhile ago... there is a beating now as I gave him 2 days to do one and still nothing. Bad bad Pet. I also think a drink of urine is in store for him. (large and heavily concentrated I believe is in order)

The little bugger needs to understand that when mistress says she wants something accomplished it needs to be done.

I'm fairly tolerant but i think i will need to change that so that she gets her house more in order both for her sake and that of her pet. too long has he really been running the show the problem is where real life and play intercede.. I think in order for me to take control i need to take all control and i'm not sure pet wants that.. He still has a say for many things. Finances, big decisions, and such and while it's great to think about him having no say i'm ot sure it would work if he didn't We work well as a team.. well in most cases but we both are over spenders by a large amount and while it's not on me that I spend over on generally it's the kids or things like food, what I wouldn't give to be handed a few hundred and told here go by whatever you want no problem. See there is double standard in our house, He spends what he chooses generally when he chooses.. New glasses, who cares if they are over budget, New shoes yes i don't "need them" but i want them and who care about the amount, new receiver while that one he ran by me but i just kind of the did the shrug what ever you like babe, and here is where the double standard comes in.. I buy glasses I go cheapest set i like (otherwise he gets grumpy) shoes again I go cheapest and he still gets upset, buy a big ticket item on my own?? Haha never would dream of even mentioning it cause i'd get my head chopped off..

I've learned to be happy getting what i can for the cheapest i can even if the runners don't support as well as they could, or the glasses aren't brand name and neither are my clothes, I take pride that I actually make it work but sometimes it would be nice, now I've mentioned this to him before his answer, get the phone thing off the ground or when you get a job, like it will solve the problems in all honesty I don't think it would.. I think he would take it as the ability for him to spend more and me to still have to jusitfy every expenditure.... WOW I have totally gotten off the topic I was writing about you know you spend to much time thinking when....

Back on topic, I am not sure where or how it would work for us to be in a female led relationship 24/7 while i think it's a great fantasy I think in order for that to work he would need to be more slave then not and i'm not sure he is there. I would love to be able to sit back and trust that if i say do something he will but I don't trust that he will. I think in the long run he is to independent to ever give me that control despite what he may want and unless i broke him and i do mean brake him to an inch of his life, (he would leave me first) it will not happen.

so instead I think i will be happy getting him to a point where i don't have to ask twice for some items and have him carry on as my pet when we are able to... now just need to remind him that i really do relish this role think that will start tonight

Well It's been awhile but things have been busy, crazy and lets face it rather boring.

Pet and I haven't had a good session in awhile. Although this week so far we are at least doing some things. Pet has started taking interest in water sports it's not my full cup of tea but it's something I can do that he enjoys and it's somewhat fun having him deal with it.

had deeoohgee over it was a fun time he didn't like the beating that i gave him even though i didn't go hard on him. Loved having him locked in my bathroom chained, next time i will have him with the straight jacket and such make it harder for him to move.

We have been having issues with keeping up our bargains.. pet has not been doing any of what he committed to doing and i'm a little grumpy about it. I know a lot is due to pet being very busy with work and all our other commitments but still it is annoying

I feel stressed so naturally anything pet does that can take care of my stress it would be better. me sitting is great massages would be better ;)

Too much time

Time passes, I didn't even realize until now this blog was still up. i guess i need to be more cognizant.

Pet has requested i keep a blog again and so i shall.. Things are relatively good. busy but good. Pet and I are still active although i have come to the conclusion I am so not a sub. i do enjoy bottoming on occasion but i like being the top, the boss and the one putting men in their place.

Pet has asked for a run down of things he can do.. I have to ask what can he not do.. if it needs doing do it. If I look like I need a pick me up run me a bath, offer me a drink and ask to rub my feet or eat me out.. take more incentive with the three kids we have and get them ready for bed with out me requesting it. Keep loving me despite my temperamental attitude and stumbling through what you need, what i need what the kids need and making it all work.

Adore the fact that I am willing and able to give you everything you want from me, wife, mother, mistress, homemaker and lover, I try hard to do all of these things with equal passion and love sometimes i am going to fail but remember that i do them as best I can.

If I am missing the mark tell me.

I do want to beat you, Put you in bondage sit on your face while you are stuffed with a big plug, or screw you silly while you try hard to get away but these are rewards, they are earned, they will not happen every night although the sitting probably could happen more *grinz*

rules i still haven't given you a lot of guidelines so here are some for you..

if you are home and there is no company or activity for the evening you are to be diapered... if we are at home for the evening, the kids are in bed and there is no company you should be plugged and diapered.

failure to these will result in a beating where you will then have something larger then a plug shoved up and then you will be diapered for the evening.. ( one night should cure that)

You are responsible for "cleaning" me, several times a week when we are home i will call you to the bathroom to lick me after i have urinated.

when you are home after i have showered you will come up and lick me till i tell you to stop.. This is a privileged that if you haven't been good i will remove.

the mitts are to be used a minimum of three times a week. thats right pet the rest of this week you are in them rofl.. this weekend you are off but i expect you to be a good boy..

as to more on the peeing, totally willing to explore this more with you.. i got the impression you were wanting it last night but wasn't sure? you need to talk more about things you are wanting when you are wanting them especially when it's not clear.

in someways it's kind of funny because it's something i never would have done till you said you expressed an interest but not that you have i'm willing to explore.

I will endeavor to up my fluid intake and drink some sweeter drinks... i'll never do beer though hate it..but maybe there are other drinks that achieve the same???

In so many ways it seems like even after all this time i have no idea what i'm doing when i know in reality i know more then i take credit for. It seems DOG is appreciating my efforts as well as you are but at the same time i go hmmmm.... Maybe it's because You pet are not just my pet but husband but because i love you i'm finding it difficult to cross lines? Need to start trying to put those feelings aside while in play.

I find myself really wanting a few leather pieces of clothing a new coat,pants, skirt perhaps a top or two.. i keep wanting to revamp the wardrobe to reflect the new attitude but worried about what ever one would think/say.. feeling like I need a complete make over get the look to go with the attitude rofl

I also wouldn't mind a really sexy pair of Yoga pants just for you to drool while i'm walking around. of course i'm thinking the expensive lu lu lemon where they quality is good but the prices suck rofl

need to get you a litte skirt to wear around the house as well... won't you look cute with you bending over skirt riding up and your diaper peeking through i'm chuckling just thinking about it.