Last night we met one of the men that we had been talking to online. I'm totally impressed, we all got along famously and plan to go ahead with the next step which is a play night with said man.
I'm looking forward to being with him. It's not our first time to bring another man into our bedroom, however it is the first time that pet will not be a full partner in the activities, always before it was us and other.. this time it will be me with other and pet watching, perhaps getting to mess with me a little but he will be either in his Neosteel or tied up so he can't get off.
It seems that we look very hard core on this blog, but in actuality we really aren't so Hard.. we do tie up and restrain, but we don't even touch most BDSM activities when I look at some actually BDSM Sites I think we've hardly scratched the surface and I'm not sure I want to.
The children make our play nights very interesting as I always must keep and ear open for them, I'm really looking forward to when they are old enough to be shipped off to places lol The oldest is now doing a few sleepovers but the other 2 are a ways away yet. Getting the time to play, or even having the energy can be hard.. Pet and I decided before we had children that no matter what sex was a priority to us no matter what something would happen, when one of us wanted it too. Yes there are times where there isn't any play at all and strictly vanilla, heck there are times where we'll look at each other and realize it's been over a week. Every couple has periods like that don't let anyone tell you they don't. But, you must always be up and willing to get back into it. Sex begets sex, the more you have it the more you want it.
Me I am a Major Nympho at least that's what the pet says. I think most women would be if they would just allow themselves to be.
Anyway All for now. But please like I said before leave a comment if you can or even just respond to say Hi.
Friday, September 12, 2008
Thursday, September 11, 2008
tonights the night
Tonight we meet with one of the gentlemen that we've selected to talk to.. I'm excited and nervous and wanting very much for things to go well and we all hit it off.
Remember that while pet doesn't have to much to say about it , I do want him to like the man that I choose as a lover. Whether it's for one night or on going they have to like each other.
On a side note kind of, went to the strippers last night and really enjoyed my time.. Was really hoping my number would be drawn to go backstage where i could have gotten a little more frisky with the guys but it was fun.. did a few body shots. But man i'd have loved to do more with some of the dancers or even better some of the shot guys.. they were freaking HOT!!
I had friends look at me a little nuts while doing the body shots. I can't decide if they were just unbelieving of my behavior or jealous or what.
Pet got off on it and wished it had went further too.
Remember that while pet doesn't have to much to say about it , I do want him to like the man that I choose as a lover. Whether it's for one night or on going they have to like each other.
On a side note kind of, went to the strippers last night and really enjoyed my time.. Was really hoping my number would be drawn to go backstage where i could have gotten a little more frisky with the guys but it was fun.. did a few body shots. But man i'd have loved to do more with some of the dancers or even better some of the shot guys.. they were freaking HOT!!
I had friends look at me a little nuts while doing the body shots. I can't decide if they were just unbelieving of my behavior or jealous or what.
Pet got off on it and wished it had went further too.
Monday, September 8, 2008
Fun
Pet and I had a good time yesterday.. we spent some time shoping, Got a few new toys,
Pet was gifted with a rather large dildo (whom i think has become his new best friend, lol)
as well as a hood.
We also bought a corset for me which I love, and made me feel extreamly sexy in, Think we'll have to buy a few more. as well as a collar for me.. Now i know some doms don't do collars on themselves but I really like wearing one. it's cute and feminine and very much me.
We decided to christen the toys and so set up a scene I very much enjoyed the expression on pets face when i was all in my corset, stockings and collar, I think it made a rather nice picture. I know pet took some so will see about placing one on here.
Pet gave me oral and watched while I pleasured myself before we began so the pressure was off me to cum the rest of the night. (which I didn't)
We started with pet sucking my dildo which he very much loves to do and will do it for ages if i let him. I unlocked him after he was done knowing that I was going to let him cum I wanted to have free access to all parts of his body.. I quickly placed him on the bench and made use of Cuffs, and the locks and had him locked into place, I then proceeded to saran wrap his middle and thighs to the bench so that he was tight and could barely move, all the while he was blindfolded with the hood as well as sound deprived as I had Hot, by Avril Lavigne, playing on repeat with my ipod, So here was my pet sense deprived, as well as locked to the bench it was a wonderful sight let me assure you.
I couldn't help myself and had to spank him.. LOL luckily i had the excuse that he had some coming, I used our strap which is rather heavy and carries a rather nice sting to it, His cheeks quickly flared to red and I was a happy girl.
I also used the flogger but left the cane alone, I am still learning to use the cane and the last time I used it I left bruises that took several weeks to heal, I'm hesitant now on using it although i really like it to..
It was then to get to the even funner part of using the strap on, Now again this is not for everyone but pet really does enjoy it. and i don't mine putting it to use.. it really is fun to rape pet.
I started out with a smaller cock, wanting to lure pet into a false sense of security.. although when i left him a few minutes later to exchange it for the largest we own, I'm sure he knew what i was up to. lol..
regardless I didn't give him much wiggle room to avoid it and before he knew it I was pumping my big black cock in and out of him. the amount of precum coming out of his was rather nice to see. Note to self: make sure we collect that for pets licking opportunity next time. ROFL...
Soon i was getting tired as we started rather late and we get up very early to get one of the young ones off to school. so I started unlocking my little sissy while still fucking him. Soon he was free and he thought we were done. I left my cock in him and told him to start fucking himself.. this is always a pleasure to see and leaves me open to do other things in this case I made him start to eat me out again.. I'm sure nothing could have turned pet more on unless of course one of the potential studs could have been there to fuck me while he continued to pump in and out with my cock..
feeling more then a little turned on and knowing pet would like it I asked if he wanted to fuck me.. he was enthusiastic about it and so he got a small taste of my pussy or course, he was still holding on to my cock for me so he had to pull out fast as he was very close to coming, at this stage still Horney and wanting cock.. (really need to select my stud and set up first date) I turned to him and with a devilish grin told him to get a condom, put it on and fuck my ass. the look on his face was stunning his eyes glazed over and all thought of anything else seemed to stop.
Before long he was in my ass, but pet needs to work on his stamina there, it wasn't but 2 min before he was cumming and left his mistress high and very wet lol..
I think tonight he will pay for it and the only one cumming will be me. ;)
Pet was gifted with a rather large dildo (whom i think has become his new best friend, lol)
as well as a hood.
We also bought a corset for me which I love, and made me feel extreamly sexy in, Think we'll have to buy a few more. as well as a collar for me.. Now i know some doms don't do collars on themselves but I really like wearing one. it's cute and feminine and very much me.
We decided to christen the toys and so set up a scene I very much enjoyed the expression on pets face when i was all in my corset, stockings and collar, I think it made a rather nice picture. I know pet took some so will see about placing one on here.
Pet gave me oral and watched while I pleasured myself before we began so the pressure was off me to cum the rest of the night. (which I didn't)
We started with pet sucking my dildo which he very much loves to do and will do it for ages if i let him. I unlocked him after he was done knowing that I was going to let him cum I wanted to have free access to all parts of his body.. I quickly placed him on the bench and made use of Cuffs, and the locks and had him locked into place, I then proceeded to saran wrap his middle and thighs to the bench so that he was tight and could barely move, all the while he was blindfolded with the hood as well as sound deprived as I had Hot, by Avril Lavigne, playing on repeat with my ipod, So here was my pet sense deprived, as well as locked to the bench it was a wonderful sight let me assure you.
I couldn't help myself and had to spank him.. LOL luckily i had the excuse that he had some coming, I used our strap which is rather heavy and carries a rather nice sting to it, His cheeks quickly flared to red and I was a happy girl.
I also used the flogger but left the cane alone, I am still learning to use the cane and the last time I used it I left bruises that took several weeks to heal, I'm hesitant now on using it although i really like it to..
It was then to get to the even funner part of using the strap on, Now again this is not for everyone but pet really does enjoy it. and i don't mine putting it to use.. it really is fun to rape pet.
I started out with a smaller cock, wanting to lure pet into a false sense of security.. although when i left him a few minutes later to exchange it for the largest we own, I'm sure he knew what i was up to. lol..
regardless I didn't give him much wiggle room to avoid it and before he knew it I was pumping my big black cock in and out of him. the amount of precum coming out of his was rather nice to see. Note to self: make sure we collect that for pets licking opportunity next time. ROFL...
Soon i was getting tired as we started rather late and we get up very early to get one of the young ones off to school. so I started unlocking my little sissy while still fucking him. Soon he was free and he thought we were done. I left my cock in him and told him to start fucking himself.. this is always a pleasure to see and leaves me open to do other things in this case I made him start to eat me out again.. I'm sure nothing could have turned pet more on unless of course one of the potential studs could have been there to fuck me while he continued to pump in and out with my cock..
feeling more then a little turned on and knowing pet would like it I asked if he wanted to fuck me.. he was enthusiastic about it and so he got a small taste of my pussy or course, he was still holding on to my cock for me so he had to pull out fast as he was very close to coming, at this stage still Horney and wanting cock.. (really need to select my stud and set up first date) I turned to him and with a devilish grin told him to get a condom, put it on and fuck my ass. the look on his face was stunning his eyes glazed over and all thought of anything else seemed to stop.
Before long he was in my ass, but pet needs to work on his stamina there, it wasn't but 2 min before he was cumming and left his mistress high and very wet lol..
I think tonight he will pay for it and the only one cumming will be me. ;)
Friday, September 5, 2008
things that are happening.
as I mentioned previously pet has been wareing his belt frequintly as of late, this being that for his birthday he's getting one of his biggest wishes, to be belted for 3 months. If things go well he will stay belted until christmas, (he will be allowed out for better cleanings ect.. ) but there will be no intercourse, touching ect.. just a cleaning and back in..
He will also be cuckolded at least once during this period we are talking to a few prospects now. and I'm itching to get the ball moving.. The prospect of being with another man while pet is locked securely away turns me on like crazy. It's not wrong if he's in the room right???
somewhere along the way my moral compass says yes.. but the libido and mind say do it anyway we'll only live once and he wants to see me being fucked and enjoyed as much as i want it so why the hell not.
i plan to make him absolutely tortured by it all.. plugs, nipple teasing and pegging will all be included as well as many many times he will be made to service, even if I don't get off he will become intimate with me and will perhaps learn to please me better. I figure by the end he'll do just about anything to get out and fuck me but who knows if the stud and I are having fun.. he may have to wait a long time or live with having second crack.
He will also be cuckolded at least once during this period we are talking to a few prospects now. and I'm itching to get the ball moving.. The prospect of being with another man while pet is locked securely away turns me on like crazy. It's not wrong if he's in the room right???
somewhere along the way my moral compass says yes.. but the libido and mind say do it anyway we'll only live once and he wants to see me being fucked and enjoyed as much as i want it so why the hell not.
i plan to make him absolutely tortured by it all.. plugs, nipple teasing and pegging will all be included as well as many many times he will be made to service, even if I don't get off he will become intimate with me and will perhaps learn to please me better. I figure by the end he'll do just about anything to get out and fuck me but who knows if the stud and I are having fun.. he may have to wait a long time or live with having second crack.
The Fun has started
Pet and I have been playing well the last few weeks. The belt has been on frequently.. and he's been getting plugged, it's been a lot of fun. but a piece is still missing, I'm often left feeling frustrated and not sated.
I swear it's because I'm such a hard come.. even by myself w vibrator it will take forever.. it completely sucks and i don't think we've ever really hit the mark so to speak I can come clitoral but have never vaginally.. Constantly frustrated seems to be my cross to bare.
I think this will be news to pet, but it seems that is just how it is.. I pretend well for his benefit although sometimes I do get what i perceive as close it never seems to peak for me. Maybe I just don't know my body well enough, haven't had enough sexual partners to know what i like. It's all very confusing. I enjoy sex though and seem to have a body that's made for it, I get sopping wet and I respond well to stimulus LOL.
Pet turns me on easily but it seems the follow through isn't there. I really get off on fucking him, I like all the things we do.. but I seem to feel gypped which is so not how this is supposed to work. Maybe I've just read to many romance novels and expect it to come off easy.. but I really wish things would shape up.. you'd think with the amount of years we've had of practice something would work out right.
Pet of course seems to do not much more then irritate when he sticks his fingers in, and he doesn't get the tongue work right although it certainly feels good. I'm starting to think of myself as a failure which is never something I would consider myself. I want to be the MILF, I want to get off, I want my pet or another to be able to lay his hands, mouth on me and get me to come. I'm sure if I lay off the vibrators and eggs that would happen but that's about the only way I'm getting any sort of relieve as short lived as it is.
This didn't quite turn out to be the post i wanted it to be so will be blogging another one shortly but sometimes i think it's important to be honest.
I swear it's because I'm such a hard come.. even by myself w vibrator it will take forever.. it completely sucks and i don't think we've ever really hit the mark so to speak I can come clitoral but have never vaginally.. Constantly frustrated seems to be my cross to bare.
I think this will be news to pet, but it seems that is just how it is.. I pretend well for his benefit although sometimes I do get what i perceive as close it never seems to peak for me. Maybe I just don't know my body well enough, haven't had enough sexual partners to know what i like. It's all very confusing. I enjoy sex though and seem to have a body that's made for it, I get sopping wet and I respond well to stimulus LOL.
Pet turns me on easily but it seems the follow through isn't there. I really get off on fucking him, I like all the things we do.. but I seem to feel gypped which is so not how this is supposed to work. Maybe I've just read to many romance novels and expect it to come off easy.. but I really wish things would shape up.. you'd think with the amount of years we've had of practice something would work out right.
Pet of course seems to do not much more then irritate when he sticks his fingers in, and he doesn't get the tongue work right although it certainly feels good. I'm starting to think of myself as a failure which is never something I would consider myself. I want to be the MILF, I want to get off, I want my pet or another to be able to lay his hands, mouth on me and get me to come. I'm sure if I lay off the vibrators and eggs that would happen but that's about the only way I'm getting any sort of relieve as short lived as it is.
This didn't quite turn out to be the post i wanted it to be so will be blogging another one shortly but sometimes i think it's important to be honest.
Monday, August 11, 2008
no i haven't abandoned the blog.
the title says it all, I haven't abandoned the blog, but I have been extremely busy, Must make time to blog it helps vent.
Things are busy and they aren't likely to settle down for awhile, Play has come to a stop although I do not think pet is helping in that department. I feel overworked and overrun most days, as i have taken in a child to care for during the week, add to that the children we already have, a house that needs to be cleaned the laundry that needs to be taken care of, the not 1 but 2 home business I'm trying to build and I'm tired. a perfect example is this weekend,
pets says lets clean the house.. it's been a week and I know things need to be done so agree.. we start, i vacuum, clear the floor spaces, sweep and the house is starting to take shape.. he starts to get fussy, organizing sorting and getting really nothing accomplished that needed to be done.. then Saturday night I take a turn for the worse, (kitchen floor still needs a washing upstairs could use a good overhaul..this doesn't get done...) Sunday I am still feeling poorly Pet lovingly makes breakfast I'm pleased..) he however doesn't clean up his mess.. the kitchen is a disaster zone.. proceeds to go downstairs is kind enough to have the children follow however the kitchen is still a mess and he comes up at 1 proceeds to ask if I'm making lunch, instead of him doing so and does this the rest of the day.. I make lunch and supper and he doesn't clean up after.. I was sick.. not just ill.. my body ached from head to toes, my head hurt and was going back and forth from having a fever to feeling as chilly as all get out. it was extremely tiring as my body wanted to sleep and i didn't dare for fear i wouldn't sleep Sunday night and would be unable to child mind like i was supposed to.
now today I'm watching children... trying to play catch up and feeling tired already.. and feeling that my pet doesn't really want to make my life easier but instead expects to be waited upon, he forgets that if he wants to play he needs to take care of me so that I'm willing and able to play.. I fully get that he works hard at work too.. but i still don't believe that his job is harder then mine.. mentally perhaps. but looking after children especially the amount i deal with and 2 of them being under 2 doesn't exactly mean I'm sitting on my ass eating candy or sitting at my computer actually today is the longest I've spent at it in one day in the last 2 weeks. and that is mostly to doing home business stuff.
Anyway that is all.. for now anyway not exactly sexy reading but sometimes a mistress needs to get it out so that she doesn't strip the skin off her pet the next time he is under her strap.
Things are busy and they aren't likely to settle down for awhile, Play has come to a stop although I do not think pet is helping in that department. I feel overworked and overrun most days, as i have taken in a child to care for during the week, add to that the children we already have, a house that needs to be cleaned the laundry that needs to be taken care of, the not 1 but 2 home business I'm trying to build and I'm tired. a perfect example is this weekend,
pets says lets clean the house.. it's been a week and I know things need to be done so agree.. we start, i vacuum, clear the floor spaces, sweep and the house is starting to take shape.. he starts to get fussy, organizing sorting and getting really nothing accomplished that needed to be done.. then Saturday night I take a turn for the worse, (kitchen floor still needs a washing upstairs could use a good overhaul..this doesn't get done...) Sunday I am still feeling poorly Pet lovingly makes breakfast I'm pleased..) he however doesn't clean up his mess.. the kitchen is a disaster zone.. proceeds to go downstairs is kind enough to have the children follow however the kitchen is still a mess and he comes up at 1 proceeds to ask if I'm making lunch, instead of him doing so and does this the rest of the day.. I make lunch and supper and he doesn't clean up after.. I was sick.. not just ill.. my body ached from head to toes, my head hurt and was going back and forth from having a fever to feeling as chilly as all get out. it was extremely tiring as my body wanted to sleep and i didn't dare for fear i wouldn't sleep Sunday night and would be unable to child mind like i was supposed to.
now today I'm watching children... trying to play catch up and feeling tired already.. and feeling that my pet doesn't really want to make my life easier but instead expects to be waited upon, he forgets that if he wants to play he needs to take care of me so that I'm willing and able to play.. I fully get that he works hard at work too.. but i still don't believe that his job is harder then mine.. mentally perhaps. but looking after children especially the amount i deal with and 2 of them being under 2 doesn't exactly mean I'm sitting on my ass eating candy or sitting at my computer actually today is the longest I've spent at it in one day in the last 2 weeks. and that is mostly to doing home business stuff.
Anyway that is all.. for now anyway not exactly sexy reading but sometimes a mistress needs to get it out so that she doesn't strip the skin off her pet the next time he is under her strap.
Thursday, July 3, 2008
Hmmm
It's been a rather quiet week.
Pet was taken out of Chastity for our anniversary in which I gave him the gift of cumming we then proceeded to fuck like bunnies another round the next morning, he was supposed to go back in and i had left him to do so.. he came to me dressed but with no belt when questioned it turned out there were a few sore spots including an open wound. Going back in wasn't an option. He remained out until yesterday morning, we hadn't had sex since the morning after our anniversary and so that made me impressed that he went in so willingly. (he hasn't masturbated either)
So now he's locked in till at least Tuesday.. the key is now locked into a key lock box and the code is locked in the time lock program that we had heard about on a few sites. I say till at least Tuesday as that is what I set the clock for but it he does something I have the option of extending. (there is an emergency bypass that is built in but it takes the square root of what time is remaining in order to keep it as an emergency option of course in a real emergency it's not the best plan.
but hopefully nothing of the sort will happen and life will be good. Anyway short entry as it is getting late will do a larger one soon.
Pet was taken out of Chastity for our anniversary in which I gave him the gift of cumming we then proceeded to fuck like bunnies another round the next morning, he was supposed to go back in and i had left him to do so.. he came to me dressed but with no belt when questioned it turned out there were a few sore spots including an open wound. Going back in wasn't an option. He remained out until yesterday morning, we hadn't had sex since the morning after our anniversary and so that made me impressed that he went in so willingly. (he hasn't masturbated either)
So now he's locked in till at least Tuesday.. the key is now locked into a key lock box and the code is locked in the time lock program that we had heard about on a few sites. I say till at least Tuesday as that is what I set the clock for but it he does something I have the option of extending. (there is an emergency bypass that is built in but it takes the square root of what time is remaining in order to keep it as an emergency option of course in a real emergency it's not the best plan.
but hopefully nothing of the sort will happen and life will be good. Anyway short entry as it is getting late will do a larger one soon.
Monday, June 23, 2008
What a weekend.
Pet and I had a pretty busy weekend not only with our play but with our personal lives. You have no idea how hard it is to stay in character of mistress when you are fluttering about between dance recitals, other activities and then yard work.
I'm rather put out that we didn't manage to keep the house clean during the process so while i will probably do some of the cleaning, pet has requested the special undies he wears when in Chasity be washed so I will throw a few loads in, but think that Pet will need to "do a few items as well" It's not fair that mistress was out working for a few hours yesterday and he didn't even manage to pick up the toys off the floor. or even organize the children to do it.
Any way housekeeping aside it was a fun weekend with a really hot session in bed Saturday night, pet and I while not penetrating anything had managed to work ourselves up. Our talk itself was rather entertaining as we let our imaginations and fantasy take us on a ride.
My pet has created a list of things to do.. Someone call this topping from the bottom, but it's more a helpful list then anything i think, sometimes I think pet worries to much about what his mistress will think and chooses to go light on her. Pet needs to stop playing that game and worry more about not having his needs met as his sub. Of course as his mistress I will choose which i do and what i don't and when.. and of course anything that meets a need of mine will be done much more often then anything ;)
Yesterday I think my pet was a little apprehensive, we started our session with him being locking into place with a chain to the ceiling attached to the back loop on his belt. i placed a large dildo up his ass, it was easy on him though as it wasn't hard and almost jelly like. he liked it though. I had cuffed his hands to the chain above his head, once they were secure i placed the key to his chastity belt over the the lock.. so it dangled I then went and showered. leaving him there was fabulous it was rather hot watching him squirm, although next time I think I will go through the added trouble of using the T-bar again.. I found it was much to easy on him this time. I don't think pet was all into it yesterday but I was and that's really what matters. I let him out for a bit of a breather from his belt. It wasn't a true release though as he wasn't allowed to come. Instead I let him out.. rubbed him a little and laughed at his plight that if he came he would be in serious trouble.
I seem to be a little all over the place today, I think i will blame it on so much to say and.. and d other obligations other then being just my pets mistress. it's sometimes extremely difficult to wear all the hats I wear and still do everything well. This blog of course isn't just about the activities but feelings, thoughts and all other things that are about the relationship of pet and I... Like all things it is never just about the sex unless it actually is.. in which case it's just fun.. ;) but how often does that really happen?
It is okay for it to be just about the sex some days, but that gets fully bland and boring if there was nothing else to it. unless of course it is a F.buddy that only come around occasionally. but in a relationship it's always more and you will all most likely hear about it all.
This Mistress thinks that any Slave worth his weight would rather have one that cares more about the feelings and emotions then just the sex anyway although the sex still has to be good and you can't stop halfway through a scene or scenario to talk about feelings it kills the mood and just sucks... Save the talking for after the rest period, or before it even starts and let the scene playout how it's supposed to...
I'm rather put out that we didn't manage to keep the house clean during the process so while i will probably do some of the cleaning, pet has requested the special undies he wears when in Chasity be washed so I will throw a few loads in, but think that Pet will need to "do a few items as well" It's not fair that mistress was out working for a few hours yesterday and he didn't even manage to pick up the toys off the floor. or even organize the children to do it.
Any way housekeeping aside it was a fun weekend with a really hot session in bed Saturday night, pet and I while not penetrating anything had managed to work ourselves up. Our talk itself was rather entertaining as we let our imaginations and fantasy take us on a ride.
My pet has created a list of things to do.. Someone call this topping from the bottom, but it's more a helpful list then anything i think, sometimes I think pet worries to much about what his mistress will think and chooses to go light on her. Pet needs to stop playing that game and worry more about not having his needs met as his sub. Of course as his mistress I will choose which i do and what i don't and when.. and of course anything that meets a need of mine will be done much more often then anything ;)
Yesterday I think my pet was a little apprehensive, we started our session with him being locking into place with a chain to the ceiling attached to the back loop on his belt. i placed a large dildo up his ass, it was easy on him though as it wasn't hard and almost jelly like. he liked it though. I had cuffed his hands to the chain above his head, once they were secure i placed the key to his chastity belt over the the lock.. so it dangled I then went and showered. leaving him there was fabulous it was rather hot watching him squirm, although next time I think I will go through the added trouble of using the T-bar again.. I found it was much to easy on him this time. I don't think pet was all into it yesterday but I was and that's really what matters. I let him out for a bit of a breather from his belt. It wasn't a true release though as he wasn't allowed to come. Instead I let him out.. rubbed him a little and laughed at his plight that if he came he would be in serious trouble.
I seem to be a little all over the place today, I think i will blame it on so much to say and.. and d other obligations other then being just my pets mistress. it's sometimes extremely difficult to wear all the hats I wear and still do everything well. This blog of course isn't just about the activities but feelings, thoughts and all other things that are about the relationship of pet and I... Like all things it is never just about the sex unless it actually is.. in which case it's just fun.. ;) but how often does that really happen?
It is okay for it to be just about the sex some days, but that gets fully bland and boring if there was nothing else to it. unless of course it is a F.buddy that only come around occasionally. but in a relationship it's always more and you will all most likely hear about it all.
This Mistress thinks that any Slave worth his weight would rather have one that cares more about the feelings and emotions then just the sex anyway although the sex still has to be good and you can't stop halfway through a scene or scenario to talk about feelings it kills the mood and just sucks... Save the talking for after the rest period, or before it even starts and let the scene playout how it's supposed to...
Friday, June 20, 2008
Journey so far
As I have stated before this is all still relatively new, I never thought i was a mistress I always thought i was the sub, however as time has gone on I've realised I'm not so much the Sub as I thought..
I like the power, I like making him stand chain hanging from the ceiling, his hands cuffed to it. I like strapping him down to the "bench" as we call it and hitting him with the strap or pegging him, him begging for more.
The power I feel is remarkable and one that I enjoy. I never thought I would. They always say that Dom/sub relationships are more about the sub.. and that is true The Dom does more work, takes more time to prepare must plan the scenarios but there is also something in it for the Dom too otherwise none of us would be doing it .. power,pleasure and a knowing that as long as we keep our Subs best int rest at heart they will love us for it.
This journey has been a slow process starting with the simple act of pegging, slowly but surly my Sub has wiggled himself into the position he has wanted to be in. over the course of 10 years slow yes but when we started this journey I was as vanilla as they came.
We have progressed a lot in this journey we now employ not only pegging but a punishment/Reward system, Chasity and many other things that i never dreamed of.
I'm still not sure where to start in our tale as it's so much back story so maybe I'll start from this point on and if you have questions about the past you can always ask and i may or may not tell depending.
The now is simple we bought a Neosteel belt awhile ago and that is now currently on him. It has been on for the last 5 days and I'm not sure when he'll be out. We have had a proper adjustment period and the belt is comfortable for him. He is also able to do all the proper hygiene things that he needs to. I've been enjoying his time in the belt although he still needs to remember his duties. I've been keeping him rather hyped up so to speak and he's been talking about periods of high sexual need which is laughed at by me since I have no immediate plans of letting him out.
Especially when he forgets to do something on his list of duties. Today for instance he was to empty the dishwasher and put the dirty dishes in.. otherwise there will be piles and we have a meeting here at the house tonight.. now i must do it so everything can be accomplished in time. This is annoying and makes me a little angry there will be some sort of punishment for this.. I can't undo him from his belt right now for a proper spanking so I think it will be a case of locked butt plug (the largest we have) or something equaling that will first bring him pleasure but the length of time will make it a punishment.
Our contract for our Mistress/Sub relationship is coming to an end and we will be doing a new one I'm trying to think of which duties I think he should have on there as they seem to span a 6-8 month period of time. He is the breadwinner in the home so I don't think it is fair he does all the house work but man is it tempting. LOL
Think I'm going to leave it at that thought.
All for this one.
Mistress Ayden
I like the power, I like making him stand chain hanging from the ceiling, his hands cuffed to it. I like strapping him down to the "bench" as we call it and hitting him with the strap or pegging him, him begging for more.
The power I feel is remarkable and one that I enjoy. I never thought I would. They always say that Dom/sub relationships are more about the sub.. and that is true The Dom does more work, takes more time to prepare must plan the scenarios but there is also something in it for the Dom too otherwise none of us would be doing it .. power,pleasure and a knowing that as long as we keep our Subs best int rest at heart they will love us for it.
This journey has been a slow process starting with the simple act of pegging, slowly but surly my Sub has wiggled himself into the position he has wanted to be in. over the course of 10 years slow yes but when we started this journey I was as vanilla as they came.
We have progressed a lot in this journey we now employ not only pegging but a punishment/Reward system, Chasity and many other things that i never dreamed of.
I'm still not sure where to start in our tale as it's so much back story so maybe I'll start from this point on and if you have questions about the past you can always ask and i may or may not tell depending.
The now is simple we bought a Neosteel belt awhile ago and that is now currently on him. It has been on for the last 5 days and I'm not sure when he'll be out. We have had a proper adjustment period and the belt is comfortable for him. He is also able to do all the proper hygiene things that he needs to. I've been enjoying his time in the belt although he still needs to remember his duties. I've been keeping him rather hyped up so to speak and he's been talking about periods of high sexual need which is laughed at by me since I have no immediate plans of letting him out.
Especially when he forgets to do something on his list of duties. Today for instance he was to empty the dishwasher and put the dirty dishes in.. otherwise there will be piles and we have a meeting here at the house tonight.. now i must do it so everything can be accomplished in time. This is annoying and makes me a little angry there will be some sort of punishment for this.. I can't undo him from his belt right now for a proper spanking so I think it will be a case of locked butt plug (the largest we have) or something equaling that will first bring him pleasure but the length of time will make it a punishment.
Our contract for our Mistress/Sub relationship is coming to an end and we will be doing a new one I'm trying to think of which duties I think he should have on there as they seem to span a 6-8 month period of time. He is the breadwinner in the home so I don't think it is fair he does all the house work but man is it tempting. LOL
Think I'm going to leave it at that thought.
All for this one.
Mistress Ayden
First Blog
I'm not sure what all will go into this. I'm sure both regular life and my life as my husbands keyholder and mistress will pop up...
I'm sure I will have those that want to read for interest, others that want to read to get off and others that will read thinking they can get to me.. only one of those i feel is valid and that is the interest.
As of right now I'm a one man mistress. whether that changes or not is something my husband/sub and I will decide eventually.
I'm writing this mostly for his and My benefit although i will try to include good sources of information as needed. Please don't email me saying we're sick, or twisted. we aren't either of those we are however a loving, committed couple who if you passed us on the street would never know that he wears full metal underware and that i hold his key, or that in the privacy of our own bedroom when the house is quiet he could be found tied to a bed getting a spanking or pegging or maybe just a gentle session of making love.
This first blog is more an introduction, a warning and to make things clear. There are so many people that will look at this in shock, or perhaps in admiration of the relationship my DH/Sub and I have. I am his Mistresswife and we are happy in how our relationship works. We are newer to it but this will hopefully catalogue the journey
An intro to us is simple we are a younger couple late twenties, with a young family, we got into this gradually and finally into the Chasity in the last year. we are normal as normal can be when not in the bedroom, mild mannered young parents living in the suburbs and enjoying life.
I warn you there will be Graphic content in my blogs as well as information on many sexual and non sexual pursuit's but if you are a delicate reader you may not wish to read anymore...
I'm sure I will have those that want to read for interest, others that want to read to get off and others that will read thinking they can get to me.. only one of those i feel is valid and that is the interest.
As of right now I'm a one man mistress. whether that changes or not is something my husband/sub and I will decide eventually.
I'm writing this mostly for his and My benefit although i will try to include good sources of information as needed. Please don't email me saying we're sick, or twisted. we aren't either of those we are however a loving, committed couple who if you passed us on the street would never know that he wears full metal underware and that i hold his key, or that in the privacy of our own bedroom when the house is quiet he could be found tied to a bed getting a spanking or pegging or maybe just a gentle session of making love.
This first blog is more an introduction, a warning and to make things clear. There are so many people that will look at this in shock, or perhaps in admiration of the relationship my DH/Sub and I have. I am his Mistresswife and we are happy in how our relationship works. We are newer to it but this will hopefully catalogue the journey
An intro to us is simple we are a younger couple late twenties, with a young family, we got into this gradually and finally into the Chasity in the last year. we are normal as normal can be when not in the bedroom, mild mannered young parents living in the suburbs and enjoying life.
I warn you there will be Graphic content in my blogs as well as information on many sexual and non sexual pursuit's but if you are a delicate reader you may not wish to read anymore...
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